Friday, October 28, 2011

Dani has a Fair comeback




Last week Dani visited the annual state of Texas Fat celebration, otherwise known as the State Fair of Texas. While I enjoy the State Fair as much as the next guy, I don't typically eat while I am there, other than my own brought-from-home protein bars or snacks. With options like 1200-calorie turkey legs, deep fried Everything (corn dogs, Twinkies, Coke, beer, funnel cakes, Snickers, etc), candy/caramel apples, and butter drenched corn cobs, just to name a few, there really isn't anything available to help me even MAINTAIN my current physical state.

Dani told me that she would be attending the fair and I instructed her to take her own foods. She said she wanted one corn cob, so I conceded and said she should request no extra butter (because they Are cooked in butter).

Next weigh-in day, she is up by four pounds, and discouraged. I asked about the corn and she fessed up to what she ate:
Corn on the cob
Corn dogS (plural)
Tater Twisters (fried potatoes)
Fried
Fried
Fried
.....

She spent the following week busting her butt everyday by burning an average of 900 a day, sometimes over multiple sessions (which is a fantastic way to get in all your calories burn if you are short on time). She also watched her diet very closely!!

The result:
Next weigh-in she was back down to her Pre-State Fair weight. That is a good thing, BUT just think how much further along she could have been if she had demonstrated discipline at the State Fair.

The best part about it is that it appears Dani learned a lesson from it all. I hope she will apply her knowledge the next time she is faced with a tempting situation.

1) always plan ahead: know where you are going, how long you will be there, and what food is available.

2) have a backup plan: keep goal-achieving snacks on hand for those times when you are caught at mealtime without a meal in sight

3) keep exercise as part of your daily agenda: plan it in advance by booking the appointment with yourself (or a trainer) and KEEP IT.


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Tuesday, October 18, 2011

"And I started...."

I will let Dani's own words be today's post.  Below is the text I recieved from her this morning at 10:42 am:

"I was so tired this morning, Debbie.  And I didn't feel like it.  Sleeping in sounded so much better than huffing and sweating.  But I got up.  And I went to the gym.  When I got to the gym, I still didn't feel like it.  I couldn't wake up.  But I climbed on the elliptical. 

And I started.

I was unsure.  After 12 minutes, I climbed off and stretched and still wasn't sure.  Then, I climbed onto the stepmill and climbed for 30 minutes.  42 minutes and 500 calories later, I felt so much better about myself."

~~~~~~~

"You don't have to be great to start, but you have to start to be great."  ~ Zig Ziglar
"The secret of getting ahead is getting started." ~ Mark Twain
"The miracle isn't that I finished, the miracle is that I had the courage to start." ~ John Bingham
"And I started." ~ Dani Yoder

Sunday, October 9, 2011

Warm Up 101

I request all my clients to show up at least 15 minutes prior to their scheduled appointments so they can "warm up."  Let's talk about what that really means. 

Why the warm up?

Starting with a "warm up" period will allow your body to physiologically prepare for physical exertion.  Of course, these changes will occur whether the individual actually performs a "warm up period" or not, but doing so at a moderate pace will reduce chance of injury during the resistance training.

In my program, the warm up is also crucial to getting the maximum caloric benefit out of the hour that the clients pay for.  Having an elevated heart rate and easily moving joints at the beginning of our hour means that I don't have to spend the first few sets getting the client's body ready before we can do higher intensity work.

How to Warm Up

A proper warm up can be performed via many different methods.  In the gym, people usually select their favorite cardio equipment: treadmill, elliptical, bike or stair climber.  Outdoors, people usually go for a run or ride their bike.  No matter which method you choose, you should start with a moderate pace then increase the pace after a couple of minutes.  I like to use a scale of 1 - 10 for conveying the pace:



Your warm up should start around a 3 or 4 pace and after 2 minutes, up the level to about a 5 or 6.  Maintain the 5 - 6 pace for about 13 minutes for a total of 15 minutes on the warm up.  Doing so will ensure you are ready for the 7 through 9 or 10 that we will hit during the working hour.

How to recognize the symptoms of being WARM

It is pretty easy to identify the people who actually spent time warming up before their training session.

Sweating:  First tell-tale sign: they are sweating, or at the minimum, glistening.  When your body temperature goes up (aka gets warmer...see the tie-in?), you begin to sweat.  Sure, some people sweat more efficiently than others, but you will sweat when you are warm.

Elevated Heart Rate: All my clients are required to wear heart rate monitors since our program is strongly based on heart rate training.  Having a heart rate about 130 is a good indicator you are putting forth some effort. 

Looser Joints & Muscles: This one is a bit more challenging for the outsider to recognize, but a person simply moves more fluidly when s/he is warm. 

Increased Vascularity: In leaner folks you can see the widened blood vessels at the surface of the skin as the blood begins circulating more to the working muscles (and less to the internal organs) it gives them the necessary oxygen supply.

Begin all your workouts with a good warm up and you will notice that the rest of your workout goes pretty smoothly.  If you have a specific body part that gives you grief (knees, elbows, back), then take a few minutes after your warm up to do a few light-weight movements for that joint to let the muscles and ligaments know they are about to be moving a little more, so "get ready."

Tuesday, October 4, 2011

Officially, the best workout ever

....according to Dani!

This workout was written for Dani who specifically requested "Something nearly impossible to accomplish, but (she'll) accomplish it because it's necessary."

I promised her a workout that the 300 Spartans would be proud of.   The program below is NOT for the unconditioned person.  It combines 45 minutes of intense purely cardiovascular training with intense weight training compound movements.  The weight suggestions shown below are what worked for Dani.  Your needs may be different.  See if you are Spartan enough for this:

Spartan 300 Workout*
(3 sets of each superset)

Squat Press 10# / 20 reps
Lunge Curl 10# / 20 reps

8 minutes cardio with HR at 85% - 90% of max heart rate (220 - your age)
       (Alternate 1 minute at 85% max HR with 1 minute at 90% max HR)

Jumping Squat Row 80# / 15 reps
Lunge Press 10# / 8 reps

8 minutes cardio with HR at 85% - 90% of MaxHR

Dumbbell Snatch 25# / 5
Pushups 8 reps
Squat Jump 12 reps

8 minutes cardio with HR at 85% - 90% of MaxHR


Single Arm Squat + Front Raise 15# / 8
Step Curl 15# / 8
Barbell Snatch 50# / 6

5 minutes cardio with HR at 85% - 90% of MaxHR


Chest fly machine (single arm) 50# / 10ea
Assisted Pull up machine (100# assist) 6 to 8 reps
Squat Fly 10# / 8

8 minutes cardio with HR at 85% - 90% of MaxHR

Cool Down with about 5 - 10 minutes of slow to moderate walking/elliptical.


Dani has declared this workout will be her Sunday workout. Always.  Of course, as she improves at this workout, she will need to adjust the weights or movements in order to keep advancing in her fitness. 

Dani's first attempt had her completing 60% of the workout and burning 690 calories.  My calculations estimate that finishing the entire workout would be a 1,150 calorie burn, and would likely take about 1.5 hours to complete. 

*Disclaimer: before attempting any workout, check with your physician to make sure your body can withstand the effort that is required.  With any activity, working out has its risks.  Just be sure the risks FOR YOU don't outweigh the reward!  Also, be sure to properly warm up before physical activity.

Saturday, October 1, 2011

Perseverence, Spiral Pins & Five AM

As usual, I kept in contact with Dani throughout the week - giving her daily workout plans, talking about food choices, and even talking through the occasional tough emotional patch.  Dani had a rough week, emotionally speaking, that is.  We won't go into all the details, but let's just say some folks at public gyms are cruel. 

It is important to remember that there is a human inside every body that you see.  As humans, we all have feelings and are sensitive to different things.  We share this earth experience with everyone else inhabiting it.  Therefore, we should all help each other in the best way possible to get through this life as unscathed as possible.  While I don't know what those rude people experienced in their lives to cause them to feel the need to inflict emotional harm on strangers, I do know that they made a choice to be rude.  So Dani, too, had a choice.  She could have believed their hurtful remarks, allowed it to crush her spirits, and leave the gym in tears.  But not Dani.  She recognized that although their remarks were hurtful, they did not truly reflect DANI.  Dani, in fact, was motivated to work even harder in spite of their comments. 

I could not be more proud.  Perseverence is required for someone who wants to compete.  Prepping for a contest challenges the body, the mind, and the spirit.  When you are the most physically depleted, you still have to put forth a week of workouts to keep the muscles taut.  When you think you can no longer go without carbs, or complete the last set, you must be able to convince yourself to continue.  Pushing your limits results in the greatest reward: Accomplishment.  Even if you don't win a trophy, you DID it. 

Dani DID it.


Dani's appointment this week was moved around a bit, and it turned out that the time that worked out best for both of us was 5:00 on Thursday morning.  So the gal that I feared was chronically late had the earliest appointment possible.  But truely, I had no doubts she would make it -- especially considering last week!

Sure enough, at 4:40 AM, Dani walked in the door with her hair down.  And she has a LOT of hair!  I thought it would take at least 10 minutes to tame it the way I normally see it.  But in a matter of mere seconds, she twisted 2 little spiral pins into her hair and ended up with a tight little bun.  I have a lot of naturally curly/kinky hair myself (nowhere near what Dani has) and I have never gotten my hair into such a perfect bun!  I asked her if those were "secret black girl pins."  She laughed and assured me they are not.  She found them at CVS!  I made a mental note to locate them later.



We measured:
WEIGHT: 182.2 (-1# from Day 1)
WAIST: 32" (-1" from Day 1)

We got through a Chest / Biceps workout in which she burned 760 calories in the hour!  She has kept up with homework workouts all week.  One day she could not muster the gumption to lift weights, but she still did cardio for an hour! 

I am very happy with Dani's dedication and have no doubts she will continue this favorable trend!  Now I have to go plan her Big Workout Sunday. 

Thursday, September 22, 2011

Dani's (Official) Day 1 - Oh. My. God.

Since Dani's initial consultation with me last week, we have texted back and forth many times about her workouts & meals.  Each message from Dani was filled with enthusiasm and questions.  Lots and lots of questions.  I don't mind questions at all -- that's how I know when someone is committed and excited.  The questions were along the lines of, "How much cardio is too  much for me in a week?" or "What workout will I do today?" or "Should I do cardio after I finish the workout you gave me?" and so on and so forth.  You can see from the questions that Dani is thrilled about working out and wants to be sure to do enough, without overdoing it.

I recommended to Dani, as I do for all my clients, that she arrive at least 15 minutes before her scheduled time so that she will have an opportunity to warm up before we hit the weights.  So it came as a surprise to me that Dani was not inside Strada's doors at 6:45 am.  I was even more surprised when Dani was not inside Strada's doors at 7:00 (her appointment time).  She knew our location: she was there (but late) for her consultation.  Not knowing Dani on a more personal level, I began to wonder if she is one of those chronically late folks.  Note to potential clients: I don't do well with Late. I make it a point to be at the studio at least 30 minutes prior to each appointment, usually I arrive earlier than that.   Yes, even for the 5:00 am appointments (who should arrive at 4:45 am, by the way).

I also wondered if she chickened out.  One of her messages the previous day said she was nervous about measuring because she hadn't really started the new meal plan until the day before.  And she asked if she would be able to walk after the workout I put her through.  She wondered if we would "pinch the fat," referring to a body composition evaluation. 

I sent a text to Dani asking simply, "Ohhhh Dani.....?  Are you on your way?"  After a brief delay, her response was (and I quote): "On my way. Over slept. Oh. My. God." 

I let her know that due to the timing of her tardiness and my schedule for the day, we would need to find another time that worked for both of us.  Turns out that 5 pm later the same day would work.  Dani offered her sincere apologies, assured me of her commitment to this plan, and promised that she would SHOW me her commitment from that moment on.  I believe she will. 

4:45 PM Wednesday, September 21, 2011
Dani arrives, shoes off, to the studio.  She apologizes profusely, takes some time getting organized, puts on her heart rate monitor and her shoes and we go to measure. 

Weight: 181.4  (-1.8#)
Waist: 32.5" (-0.5")

It is all good news!  We did pinch the fat, and it is high.  That is all I have to say about that right now.  We have a baseline set and a week into the plan, Dani has seen small changes.  Smiles abound!  I get Dani warming up on the treadmill.  My goal with warm ups is not only to get the blood flowing so that muscles & joints can prepare for more movement, but also to get the heart rate up.  The body should start sweating, hence the term "warmed up."  Increasing her heart rate to a moderate level will allow her body to stay warm throughout the remaining workout, and will cause her to burn more calories. 

We perform a workout that is focused on conditioning (adapting to maintaining a higher heart rate over a longer period of time) using movements based on leg and shoulder muscles.  I like to use a lot of combination moves which make the cardiovascular system work just as hard as the muscles we are training.  Things like Dani's new favorite, the Squat Row and the Lunge + Shoulder Flyes (Dani is caught performing below) are very challenging to the entire body.  However, I prefer to use the term "effective."  As in, "Client, be ready, this next move is quite effective."  



In the next hour, Dani burned 625 calories!  She also found time to dance and sing to the music playing over the speakers, so Dani's focus going forward will be to do just that: FOCUS.  As we get into heavier weights, which I feel confident she will handle soon, she will need to focus on what she is doing to insure she avoids injury!  I am all about having fun, but when it is time to work, it is time to work. 

All in all, I am proud of Dani and her level of commitment and I fully trust I will not have to see another message that says, "Oh. My. God." again...unless she is talking about how she can't move her limbs because of delayed onset muscle soreness (DOMS).
   

Friday, September 16, 2011

If you want to compete...

If you want to be a competitor, you have to have a little bit of crazy in you.... Below is a snippet of Dani's text conversation with me regarding how her homework workout went today:





I am so proud....!

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Wednesday, September 14, 2011

Eating For Weight Loss

I get a lot of questions about what to eat and when to eat it and which supplements to take and when and so on and so forth.  Let's face it: there is a ton of information out there about nutrition and reading article after article can lead to more questions than answers.  It seems that a lot of the nutrition information is contradictory.  I'll give you that.  But what you, the reader, needs to pay attention to is WHO the article is geared toward.

Nutrition for losing weight is different than nutrition for sports performance, different from nutrition for healthy-weight individuals looking to maintain their weight, and even different for those looking to put on muscle.  What I hope to do here is make nutrition for weight loss simple.  (Disclaimer: Please note that anything here is extremely simplified, applies to most "generally healthy" individuals, and does not replace a discussion with your own doctor or nutritionist.)

The crux of losing weight is to consume fewer calories than you expend, creating a deficit in your body's caloric balance.  If you have been the same weight for a number of years (or months), then your body has reached a caloric balance.  You are consuming enough calories to maintain your current physique: not too few (or else you would lose weight) and not too many (or else you would gain weight).



Rule of Thumb: Multiply your current weight by 10.  That is how many calories you should consume daily to MAINTAIN your current weight. 

If you want to LOSE weight, you will need to eat fewer calories.  That is our focus today. 

A pound of body weight is equal to 3,500 calories.  In order to lose 1#, you must create a deficit of 3,500 calories, over time.  Don't try to do that in one day, people!  Let's say you are a 150# woman, who hopes to one day be a 130# woman.  Your maintenance calories are 1500 (150x10).  You should drop your calories to a safe level to create a caloric deficit.  One should not drop his/her calories below about 1200 daily.  To do so would constitute "starvation mode."  Let's not lose weight that quickly!  If you weigh 120 pounds or less, then you probably don't need to lose weight.  (If you think you do, please contact your physician or a Registered Dietician.) 

So let's look:
1500 - maintenance calories
1200 - weight loss calorie target
  300 - caloric deficit (daily)

300 x 7 days/week = 2100 caloric deficit/week
Remember, one pound is 3500 calories, so the deficit above does not result in a one-pound weight loss.  This is why you are eating so cleanly, but don't feel like you are making any progress!  It is a slow process.  The diet change above would lead to just more than a half a pound each week (that is why exercise & nutrition go hand-in-hand for real results)!

So then WHAT do I eat for those measely 1200 calories (in this hypothetical example)?
Certainly you will need to plan ahead!  I will be honest, that is not a lot of food.  However, if you make your choices wisely, you can feel reasonably satisfied. 

Rules of Thumb:
  • Foods that grow from the ground
  • Foods that used to swim or fly
  • Foods that used to have hooves
If your food fits easily into one of the above categories, then chances are the food is pretty good for you: assuming the chef did not add anything to it that does not fit into one of the above categories. 

Worried that your food will be bland?  Guess what, herbs and spices grow from the ground!  And they add amazing flavor to other foods! 

Of course, exceptions always abound.... olive oil can be argued to have come from the ground, same with peanut butter, to name a couple.  While for the healthy-weight individual these are healthy foods (used in moderation), these are not good foods for weight loss.  Why?  They add a lot of calories without adding much to the feeling of satiety, or, feeling "full."  

Weight Loss Tip:
Greens can fill your belly without adding a significant amount of calories to your diet. 

You can estimate that an ounce of greens (broccoli, green beans, fresh spinach, asparagus) is approximately 10 calories.  Eight ounces of steamed broccoli (even with a squirt of lemon juice) is a large volume of food for only 80 calories.    Pair it with four ounces of lean chicken breast (boneless, skinless, of course), and you have a filling meal for only 200 calories!

Weight Loss Tip:
Eat 5 - 6 small meals spaced 2 to 3 hours apart.

Eating small, healthy meals frequently not only helps you avoid feelings of hunger, it also helps maintain your blood sugar levels.  Keeping blood sugar levels stable will prevent spikes in insulin, which tells your body to store the excess.  The most practical application of this, for me, is that if I start getting hungry 2.5 hours after one meal, I can look at the clock and tell myself that I can make it 30 more minutes!  Stay disciplined!

Weight Loss Tip:
Always Eat Breakfast

Your body has just awakened from a long overnight fast ("break" "fast", hello, people!).  You need to get things moving again.  Overnight, you have depleted your easily-accessed storage to keep "the lights on," so to speak.  Your body & brain need more fuel to function during the morning and the rest of the day.  Some folks who want to lose weight prefer to exercise BEFORE their breakfast, and that is a good idea!  It causes your body to "dig deep" for the fuel that is in deep storage (fat cells) to get through the workout.  But be sure to eat a good recovery meal right after working out! (egg whites and oats are a good combo)

Some folks choosing to forego breakfast before workout may find it difficult to make it through an intense, calorie-burning session.  If you find that to be the case, then I recommend having a piece of fruit or a single slice of wheat toast prior to workout. 

Physique-Saving Tip:
Always have protein with your meals.

Protein is what our bodies use to rebuild tissue.  If you are exercising, you will need it for recovery, for building muscle and other lean body tissues.  If you lose weight without eating much protein, then you will find your new self to be pretty squishy, even though you might be smaller.  Ladies, this doesn't mean you will bulk up.  I hate to hear ladies say "I am afraid I will bulk up."  If you had any idea how difficult it is to "bulk up," you would not say such things.  For ladies, about 4 oz per meal is sufficient, probably 6 to 8 oz for men.  Nicely toned bodies require lean protein.  End of story. 

Healthy Life Tip
Log your foods.

I can't say this one enough.  Log your foods, log your foods, log your foods, log your foods.  You can use one of the many SmartPhone apps, online apps, or kick-it Old-School and write in a cool, cute & smart all-encompassing book like Fitbook (http://www.getfitbook.com/).  If you aren't logging, then you really don't know how many calories you are eating, now do you?

What tips did I leave out?  What do you disagree with & why?  Do you track the foods you eat?  Do you exercise & watch what you eat, or do only one or the other but not both?  I want to hear from you!

Meet Dani

Meet Dani:





Dani approached me during one of my own workouts at our local gym. She asked if I competed in bodybuilding shows and wanted to get some words of wisdom. We chatted a bit, and I learned how she has already lost 40 pounds on her own and her goal is to one day be up onstage in a sparkly bikini with hundreds, if not thousands, of people cheering, "Dani! Dani! Dani!"

Maybe I embellished a bit about the cheering, but if you could meet Dani in person, you'd know that I am not far off!

I told Dani that I am a personal trainer and can map out a plan, specific to her, that will culminate in shouts of joy. Thankfully, Dani chose to put her trust in my wisdom & experience!

Since Dani is a self-proclaimed "attention wh*re," I thought she is a perfect candidate for profiling on The ETLT!

Dani's Current Stats:
9/14/2011
Weight: 183.2
Waist: 33"
Hips: 43"
Thighs: 25.5"

I designed Dani's meal plan to provide six lower calorie days with one day of "maintenance" calories. This gives her something to look forward to after being On Task for 6 days. The foods are still healthy options, but she gets more.

Her plan also includes 6 days of exercise. Dani works out regularly already, so that isn't a stretch for her.

Dani's Targets:
• exercise 6 days, burning at least 550 calories at each session
• eat 1280 calories 6 days weekly
• eat 1765 calories 1 day weekly

The targets above will create a caloric deficit of 6,455 calories each week, which equates to 1.8 pounds she could expect to lose on a weekly basis.

Keep up with Dani's progress weekly as we follow her journey to reach the competition stage!

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Friday, August 26, 2011

How Much you eat determines your size.
Your Exercise determines your shape!

Tuesday, August 23, 2011

Be Honest: Are You READY?

It's not that some people have more willpower than others....it's that some people are more READY than others to make a change in their lives. 

It is important to know exactly where you want to go before you try to make changes.  Otherwise, how will you really know what changes to make?  "I want to be more fit," is not very clear.  Do you want to:
  • lose weight?
  • gain muscle?
  • gain greater cardiovascular endurance?
  • gain greater muscular endurance?
  • become more flexible?
  • be stronger?
  • be more agile?
  • have greater control over your emotions?
  • increase the amount of fruits & vegetables in your diet?
  • reduce the amount of red meat in your diet?
Theese are all different aspects of wellness and each requires a different approach in order to achieve success. 

You have to know where you want to go before you can leave where you are!

Tuesday, April 5, 2011

21-Day Personal Challenge


I have given myself a 21-day challenge based on a comment from Coach Adam. Coach Adam claims I can be "contest ready" (meaning Ripped) in 3 weeks. Of course, that means I would have to follow a pre-contest diet and exercise plan in order to get there.


Since I don't believe him, I have decided to take on his little challenge to see if he is correct. I began this challenge yesterday (April 4, 2011). The plan goes like this: consume around 1500 calories and burn 800 through exercise. That means I would net around 700 calories daily. I felt really good about this, until I was nearly falling asleep during my first workout yesterday. I somehow managed to burn 400 in that chest less-than-spectacular chest workout.


20 minute warm-up on treadmill (pace 3.5, incline 14%)

Incline bench press

Flat bench dumbbell press

Hammer Strength Incline press

Chest Flys on the Pec-Deck machine


We did 3 or 4 sets of each movement, and to keep my heart rate up, I performed dumbbell snatches in between the sets. That is, unless I was napping. Okay, so I wasn't really napping, but it sure felt like it. Hey, the life of a trainer/college student is tough! Going to bed at 11 pm and waking up at 3 am each morning is hard on a gal that performs best on a full 8 hours of sleep!


Later in the day, I threw in a 40-minute jog/run/sprint that ultimately burned another 535 calories, for a grand total of 935 calories expended through exercise!


Of course, those 935 calories don't count if I pig out all day. Calories In vs Calories Out, right??

Yesterday I ate:

1/2 cup old fashioned oatmeal + 1 scoop of soy protein (chocolate flavored)

4 gm extra lean turkey + 1 cup of carrots

1 Myoplex Lite protein bar

4 gm extra lean turkey + 6 oz green beans

and another 4 gm extra lean turkey + 6 oz green beans for dinner


I also had an Omega-3 supplement, and I have to include the 3 sponge candies that were brought to me from Buffalo as a gift from my client Amy. I ate those immediately post workout so that the sugars would be used to replenish my glycogen stores, rather than put into storage themselves! My calories consumed comes to approximately 1450 (since I don't know exactly how many calories the candies were, I am estimating 150 for all 3 of them).


That gives me a net of 515! So I am good for the first day!

Bring on Day 2!!

Sunday, March 6, 2011

Motivation Meditation


Motivation is a funny thing. Everyone wants to know how to get it. When they are talking with me, it is in reference to working out or eating healthy. But motivation isn't something that you go get. When it comes to fitness, it really can't be given to you...unless I buy a gun and start threatening clients with their lives just to get them in the gym.

Recently I heard that a friend had gained some unwanted pounds. I offered to have her come to the studio and train with me (of course) and I'd help her get rid of that extra weight. Her response was pretty simple: "I am hard to motivate." Ever since then I have been pondering the idea of motivation.

The woman who claimed to be hard to motivate is a former business owner. To start your own business, one has to be MOTIVATED. She got out of her business because she was ready to do something else. She was MOTIVATED to do something new. She is MOTIVATED to participate in agility training with her dogs. Clearly, she is not hard to motivate. She simply isn't interested in working out.

mo-ti-vate (moh-tuh-veyt) - v. 1. to provide with a motive or motives; incite; impel

mo-tive (moh-tiv) - n. 1. something that causes a person to act in a certain way, do a certain thing, etc; incentive

She, and many others, are looking for someone (a personal trainer, perhaps) to cause her to act in a certain way: training, choosing the right foods...yada, yada, yada. I tend to believe that the MOTIVATION has to begin internally. Making a personal change is not an easy process. Doctors, family members, friends can tell you all day long that you need to quit smoking/start working out/eat healthier foods/etc, but you aren't going to pay attention to it until you believe it yourself.

KNOWING and BELIEVING are two different things altogether. We all KNOW we should be active daily. But the capability to honestly see/feel/believe that the reward is greater than the risk is different in each person.

In my example, she doesn't like the extra 8 pounds, but she is willing to put up with the 8 pounds rather than put forth effort to lose it, at least for the time being. Her point of taking action might be when she has an extra 12 pounds, or even 20 pounds.

We are all MOTIVATED to do the things we enjoy doing. We find personal satisfaction in different things. I enjoy sitting in a classroom learning about how the body functions and I enjoy Leg Day in the gym. I am more MOTIVATED to train with weights than to go for a run, because I enjoy it more.

The secret to being MOTIVATED to be active and/or lose weight is to find what you enjoy about it. You may not like working out, but you do like fitting in your favorite size 8 jeans. The end justifies the mean. Once you develop good habits, and begin noticing how differently you feel (stronger, leaner, can run farther or faster, emotions are more stable, clothes are more flattering....), you may find that you actually enjoy working out.

Motivation for fitness and health has to come from within. Until you find it, I guess I'll start practicing at the gun range that is on my way home from school.

"You will never leave where you are, until you decide where you'd rather be." Dexter Yager

Saturday, March 5, 2011

Protein-Meringue Puffs



Within just a few minutes of posting a mention of these puffs on Facebook, I had several requests for the recipe. Here goes:

1 VPX ZeroImpact High Protein Meal Replacement Bar (I chose Pumpkin Supreme)
4 egg whites or 1/4 c. liquid egg whites
1/2 tsp vanilla (or almond) extract
1/8 tsp cream of tartar
1/2 c sucralose (I used Splenda)
1 tsp poppy seeds (optional)
Let the egg whites sit at room temp for about 30 minutes. Line a baking sheet with parchment paper. Preheat oven to 300 degrees F.
Unwrap the VPX protein bar & cut into 16 squares. Gently roll into 16 balls.
Combine poppy seeds with sucralose.

In a mixing bowl with an electric mixer on medium speed, beat the egg whites, vanilla and cream of tartar to soft peaks (tips curl). Add sucralose-poppy seed mixture 1 tsp at a time until stiff peaks form (tips stand straight) and sucralose is nearly dissolved (about 7 minutes).

Spoon the meringue in teaspoonfuls on the parchment paper and create a dent in the center of each. Place one ball of the protein bar in the dent of each meringue shell. Cover the protein balls completely with the remaining meringue (this will prevent them from drying in the oven).

Bake puffs for 35 minutes. Turn off oven and allow the puffs to remain in the oven, door closed, for 1 hour. Remove from oven and allow the puffs to cool on a wire rack; cool completely.

Enjoy!
Nutrition Profile (approximately): Calories 36, Total Fat 2g, Total Carbs 2g, Protein 2.5g

Thursday, February 17, 2011

Negative Nelly - Go Sit Down!

I Hate Negativity

It really burns me up. Tans my hide. Irks me. Raises my ire. More so, it confuses me. That is more to the truth. I don't understand negativity. I'm not talking about a little here and there -- we all have our moments when we aren't on our "best behavior." Sometimes we are "in a mood." What I'm talking about is when someone has the consistent display of negativity that overrides all other moods. I don't get it.

You know the person: there is always an excuse for why they are down-in-the-dumps, yet rarely do they ever say "I'm just in a bad mood today." Generally, they blame the bad mood on something external; something that is "not their fault." Either they don't feel well, or some jerk cut them off on the road, or their boss or teacher or somebody hates them. No matter what day it is, though, I find it is the same people time after time that display these negative moods. It's the same people who not only keep a permanent scowl on their faces, but also refuse to respond when you offer a salutation.

Maybe they enjoy the attention they get from being negative: others asking if they can help, or even marvelling at how well the Negative Nelly is coping, you know, in spite of all those negative events that always happen to her. Maybe it makes him or her feel strong in some sense. I don't know....I am confused.

I find so much more joy and satisfaction in making the best of a situation. Unfortunately, we will not always find ourselves in a happy circumstance. But the people who stay smiling and maintain their humor, those who don't alienate their friends or their acquaintances (or any other person they find themselves spending time with) tend to get through their circumstances more quickly than the Negative Ones. Other people DO want to help. They really do. But sometimes, after observing extended periods of consistent negative behavior, even the Positive Polly gives up on ever hearing a salutation returned.

Is that what the Negatories want? They say that misery loves company. Maybe that's what they are aiming for. I don't understand that....


I am in charge of my own emotions. I am in charge of my own motivation. I am in charge of my own actions. What others do does not change who I am. How others behave does not dictate my feelings. There is a little part of my brain that controls the emotion center and I can train it just like I can train any other part of my body. Some days I am more in control than others. Some days I can remain positive and happy in spite of turmoil inside. Other days, it is more difficult. I, however, do not see a reason to be consistently negative toward other people. No matter how I am feeling. People might see me upset, but I would not deny our common human connections. What is the point? Where is the benefit (and to whom)? I just don't get it.

As a teenager, I was a Negative Nelly (maybe we all are). I did behave poorly toward a single person. And I regret it often as an adult. I received no benefit from it. It only worked to make myself more upset and angry and miserable. It was a vicious cycle. At some point I made a decision to see the positive side. My life immediately became a happier place. Now I find myself confused as to why any grown person would choose to be miserable.

Well, you can't take me down with you. I like it up here.

Choose to see beauty. Choose to practice forgiveness toward friends and strangers. Choose the Human Connection. Choose to make your day a positive one. Choose to Live Well.

"Be kind. For everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle." ~ Plato


**My apologies to anyone named Nelly who might read this. I have only personally known one Nelly, and she was not at all negative. In fact, she was extremely pleasant to be around.**